Everthing about my story

Story of my life

When my mother heard that I was there when she was 28 years old I was in the old category. Previously my mother had conceived at age 27 but my mother had a miscarriage. After the womb age the mother enters the age of 2 months my mother follows basic training for pregnant women and knows a lot about the personality articles of the child in the womb. When the womb continued, my mother had entered the age of 5 months, my mother moved to jambi because of the transfer of my father's assignment. In this environment a little makes my mother stress because the environment in Jambi is very different from the Medan. This had made my mother mild depression which caused my mother to go home to the field when my mother's womb was 8 months old. After arriving at the field my mother did relaxation to calm her mind. And my mother's mild depression disappeared in 2/3 days.

          Days passed, my mother contracted and was taken to a maternity home in the city center. My mother began to enter the maternity house on Thursday but my mother was unable and able to give birth to me. This made my family panic. But entering the Friday afternoon at 12:30 5 january 2001 after the Jumuah prayer my mother gave birth to me and give name of the little girl is Hafizhah Arsad due to my mother's condition was too weak and there was a problem with my head's position at that time. After a few hours my mother was aware of her general anesthesia. For the first time my mother gave me a touch and began breastfeeding me. After a few days the recovery period of my mother was allowed to go home. My mother is a weak woman, so my mother needs during postpartum recovery were assisted by her brother and sister.

                  After 2 months, my mother went back to Jambi and was taken by her mother and brother. My mother began to dare to bathe myself without the help of others. My mother is well-known and protective. Just imagine my mother is always angry if someone else touches me without washing her hands first. after a few months in Jambi my mother was no longer depressed. Because the environment in Jambi has started many migrants such as Javanese and Minang people It makes my mother able to chat more with the people around her because 1 year ago in Jambi there were no Javanese and Minang people only had people who made ibua I have never interacted.

              After 6 months I have first teeth and at that time my mother started giving me baby porridge with many choices of flavors such as bananas, kidney beans and other sweet flavors. at the age of 7 months I had begun to speak little by little and my mother began giving me food with a savory taste and added chicken liver, broccoli and fried onions. at the age of 9 months my mother gave me a team of rice with a mixture of mixed vegetables and fruits

I have a fast growth in speech but I have a slow growth in walking because I started to be good at walking at the age of 1 year while other children were able to walk without the help of their parents. My mother gave formula milk in addition to my mother giving breast milk. after one and a half years in Jambi my mother returned to Medan because my father's assignment was finished and at that time I was 1.5 years old. My mother is well-known for her thoroughness in making me feel good. Just imagine that during my life even in the field my mother was famous. As the mother was careful. My mother always put socks on me until I was 8 years old.

          I was trained and taught by my mother to speak up in front of people. Since I was 3 years old. At that time my mother guided but my mother's biggest mistake was not introducing me to nature. I mean my mother doesn't allow me to play outdoors. My mother was afraid that I would get sick or get germs if I played outside and the impact that I was very vulnerable to pain and fear if I played outside my own room until now.

         My mother began teaching the world of education at the age of 3 years by means of fun things. Like taking me to a shopping center and telling me all kinds of colors by taking clothes that I like. My mother is very smart to teach me about education. Because she understands my character from birth. 4 years ago my mother started giving picture books when my mischief began to increase, by scribbling walls with my father's marker. Since my mother gave me picture books and crayons, my mother saw my strengths in drawing and following me in various competitions. . And that makes me excited and brave in everything.

        I started kindergarten at the age of 4.5 years and it was fairly fast. My mother allow me to study in  kindergarten because I always asked for schooling and it made my mother even more convinced to enroll me in kindergarten. The first competition I won.  I won the drawing competition sponsored by Antimo and the runner-up made me even more excited to take part in the competition . Several months later the Ramadhan safari kindergarten tour outside the city sponsored by Telkomsel. And I joined the competition  and managed to win. My mother proud of me because my golden age is used for useful things.

        At the age of 5.5 I tested in a private elementary school and managed to break down with a satisfactory value. In this new environment, mother is driving the race for me because I've really entered the school world. This got me used to and started leaving the drawing competition that I liked. When I was in grade 3 I was tested for using pens for the first time but I failed and that made me rise and the spirit of learning to write with my mother. About 2 weeks of my writing the  underwent a change and made my teacher amazed and immediately gave me permission to use the pen.

           But unfortunately, when I really knew and loved my friends in the field, my father gave me bad news that my father would be transferred to Riau. Which I have never heard of at all. I experienced a 100% downturn in my really down. I went through every time there but I experienced a huge environmental change. This makes the performance think I'm really down. My mother panicked and thought of returning me to the field and staying with my grandmother. But I refused because I was too close and could not be separated from mama.

   At the age of 10 I started to enter MTS where my father worked. At this level I began to feel the difference. I began to get my new talent. I began to race again and the passion that I encountered was the world of art which had nothing to do with my parents. I started singing competition in class 1 MTS and managed to win the race, the day had passed Tens of competitions that I followed until finally I spread to the world of Mtq and Alhamdulillah I won in this competitions Mother and I were a little surprised by the passion and talent that I had. Because in my family no one is gifted in the art world.

     At the age of 13 I entered ALIYAH and began to become a teenager. at this stage I began to gradually leave bad habits during MTS. I also started learning to cook and wash my clothes. I have also reduced various competitions because I have to focus more on my learning career. When I was in class 3, I also began to choose the department and university I would choose. I considered between the SLB department and English language education. and finally I chose English and only focused on learning about it. I took the SNMPTN exam and finally I was accepted at Riau University. my mother and father were very proud of me even my mother cried in tears with my achievement. after a few months when I went to Pekanbaru and stayed away with my father and mother. at the beginning of the month I felt difficulty but I could pass it until now.

Being a mother is a noble profession throughout life. Professions that will defeat all types of professions that exist, even if women work. Mother's adoption in children's education and household management is very important. as the main and first educator, it is very demanding profesonality and skills of a mother. The progress and decline of their children as a generation of administrators are grasped in their care. The application of a mother to her child begins when the fetus is in her stomach.

The fetus's emotions will be calm if the mother's psyche is also calm, and vice versa the fetus will experience mental discomfort if the mother is not calm or nervous. A mother forms the concept of thinking and personality on the soul of a child. This is what proves the most influence of children. This is what proves how great the influence of mothers on children's emotional power, because one's personality continues to grow.

Children need a father figure as he needs a mother. Of course in a capacity that is not the same. Being a father does not only function as a means of earning a living for the family, but greater than that. Because children not only need people who give them love, the feeling of calm and love that is given by the mother. But the child also needs people who give him strength, security, and power, which can be obtained from the figure of a father.

So thank you to my mama and papa I've given me a very meaningful education up to now